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review No More Christian Nice Girl Ï eBook or Kindle ePUB Û ❄ [KINDLE] ✽ No More Christian Nice Girl By Paul Coughlin ➝ – Horticulturetrader.co.uk When passivity and false niceness don't bring the abundant life Jesus promised some Christian women try even harder to hide behind a fragile faCade of EBook #9734 stories and biblically based teaching from both the male author of the pioneering No More Christian Nice Guy and a female clinical psychologist this book will motivate women to allow God to transform them into authentic powerful women of loving fait. Today we face the realities of a social church that seldom faces facts acts in the sweetest way possible to be a good witness and likes sermons and ways that are soft delicate and sweet just because someone is Christian As a result many good intentioned women end up trying to please everyone else but themselves accomplishing nothing than becoming a doormat for those who like abusing others As a conseuence even the own identity is lost and life becomes a constant struggle resulting in frustrated and broken relationshipsThis is the reality the authors say drove them to write this book Both are experienced counselors and it shows both in their biblically found advice and in their easy narration Yes you might find yourself soaring through the truths jokes and challenges while you learn that assertive respectful and graceful words somewhat surprising but sincere are powerful than nice ones those expected and wanted even if this might result offensive to those who like to use women It might be a challenge but as the authors put it confrontation will lead into intimacy and better relationsThis book is very easy to read; the authors have a relaxed and straightforward way that invites the reader to go on However I found myself identified with some situations and had to take a pause and ponder about it before reading on and this does not happen to me with any book which is another fact I liked about this one I even read some chapters twiceA great asset at the end of each chapter the authors include a series of uestions that might be used for study in small groups or for personal reflection They also invite the reader to go to certain verses in the Bible and study how the principle they expose is seen or applied in that specific portion Another plus is Nicole a fictional character that exemplifies the situations described in each chapter; by the end of the book you can see her learning to be a different person with authentic not socially accepted love for God for herself and others The best part of her process is that she gets closer to God and becomes a better witness of His loveI would not doubt in recommending this book However I must also include a word of caution this is a very good book so good that I have to add the reader must always have in mind that it is not the maximum authority on how to build a Christian character; that's what the Bible is for I wonder if Christians stepped up studied the Bible and applied the teachings it includes this book might not be needed and the authors be out of workI received a complimentary copy of this book from Bethany House Publishers for review but this does not bias my opinion on the book nor the authors

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When passivity and false niceness Christian Nice Kindle #207 don't bring the abundant life Jesus promised some Christian women try even harder to hide behind a fragile faCade of pleasant perfection Paul Coughlin and Jennifer Degler give women the empowering mes. Many young women who have grown up in the church culture are under the impression that they must constantly be nice to everyone Here are some lies CNGs believe It's the 'Christian' thing to do to stick my neck out there for someone else Jesus would want me to be uiet and submissive It's impolite for a woman to take the reigns of leadership and suash a guy Since God naturally wired women's brains to be relationally bent and because women have been brought up in a culture that conditions them not to be too loud or outspoken how do women navigate Biblical injunctions to let the man be the head of the household without sacrificing their own needs and desires In this comprehensive book Paul Coughlin and Jennifer Degler unpack how a woman can move beyond nice and into good in her marriage her family amongst her friends and in her job The book teaches us how pleasing God is guaranteed to offend some people but ultimately how we need to entrust ourselves to our own uniue calling It reminds us to choose honesty over niceness to be firm but gentle and to walk with confidence and poise rather than with insecurity and fear I recommend this book to any woman because almost every woman struggles with these same things

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No More Christian Nice GirlSage that they have options far beyond simply acting nice or being mean if they will emulate the real Jesus Christ and face their fears of conflict rejection and criticism Brimming with enlightening information thought provoking uestionnaires real life No More. I really loved this book I still have my copy of it